FAQ

Who can come to the nursery?

Any adult who promises to respect the nursery's rules is welcome. Simply make an appointment with one of our nannies.

Why is the nursery named ABDL-Montreal?

Whe chose this name because it is widely recognized by infantilists while the four-letter acronym ABDL means little to the general population.

When we chose the nursery's name, several criteria were retained. They are:

• That the name be instantly recognizable by infantilists as the four letters ABDL is well known to the community.
• The name should not sound like or look like any acronym used by organisations that deal with real children for obvious reasons.
• The name should be usable in many languages most importantly inn French and English.
• When heard by the general public, who is unaware of the existance of infantilists, the name should have not attract their curiosity.
• The internet domain name should be available.
• The name had to be available under the Quebec legal jurisdiction.

Are diapers supplied?

Depending on the selected package, ABDL-Montreal supplies a certain number of Abri-Form X-Plus diapres to its visitors.Other brands and/or models are available on site.

Can I do #2/poop in my diaper?

This is up to the nannies; some accept this while others don't. If this activity is important to you, please discuss this beforehand with the nanny you choose.

Can I bring my own stuff?

Of course you may bring your own toys, clothes, diapers, etc. We ask, however, that they be caried in a discrete way (luggage, pack sac, duffel bag, etc.)

Can I bring friends with me?

Of course! You must however mention it when making the reservation so that the nursery can be prepared accordingly.

How large is the nursery?

The nursery has the following rooms:

• A bedroom for the baby/babies where you will find the crib, changing table, diaper locker, etc.
• A multi-function living room with sofa/bed, television, computer with internet access, telephone. This is also a play room with childrens toys.
• A fully equiped kitchen/dining room with high chair and children's plates and utensils.
• A brightly decorated bathroom deceorated especially for babies.

Where is the nursery located? How do I get there?

The nursery is locates in Montreal, at the limit of the Ville-Marie arrondissement (near that of Hochelaga). The nursery is located at less than a three minute walk from the Frontenacmetro station.

Can I go out dressed as a baby?

You can go out wearing your diaper under your clothes or even while wearing "childish" clothes. However, wearing anything to obviously baby-looking is not recommended. If in doubt, ask your nanny about what clothes you may wear outside the nursery.

What payment method do you accept?

You can pay cash or by credit card. Please note that for long duration stays, a pre-authorisation by credit card might be required as in a regular hotel.

I do not want charges to appear on my credit card statement. What can I do?

Call us or email us, we can see if an arrangement can be made to satisfy your needs.

How can I meet other infantilists?

The nursery regularly offers meetings where you can meet other infantilists. Please see our "Services" page for more information.

I am a Daddy or nanny and would like to rent the nursery. What should I do?

Our nannies are usually also in charge of logistics besides taking care of "babies". Communicate with us, we will surely find a way to accomodate you.

How is the nursery maintained? Is it clean?

All materials used are washed and sanitized after each use. We pay particular attention to the security of our patron. Our priority is to provide a secure and cozy environement where you will feel confortable. We believe this is the only way to insure you have a pleasant stay.

I would like to go to the nursery but I am shy! What should I do?

First you should understand that everything has been done to insure your security and confidentiality. For more information on these measures please see the relevant section of this site.

You should also understand that it is normal for infantilists to feel insecure when talking about thmselves with stangers. The ABDL-Montreal staff is very aware of this fact and you should feel comfortable communicating with them; most are infantilists themselves.

I have set an appointment but am not sure I will go

It is very important that you advise us if you change your mind or if an unforeseen event prevents you from coming.

By not showing up for your appointment, you might be preventing someone else from benefiting from the nursery and have a nanny loose the reserved time.

We understand the stress that might arise from a first visit but still ask that you advise us of any cancellation. You might want to read our section on ow to prepare for a vist to put you at ease.

How much in advance should I reserve a stay?

As availability of the nursery varies according to the seasons and day of week, we ask that you try to make a reservation for your stay a couple of days in advance to increase your chance of success. However, you might get luky and get an appointment the same day! Get in touch with the ABDL-Montreal staff or directly with a nanny for availability.

Why create a nursery?

Opening and operating a nursery like ours cost a lot of money and time (rent, public utilities, maintenance). Many of those involved do this out of passion (beinginfantilists themselves); not for profit. However, profit still needs to be generated in order for us to continue. Our objective is to become profitable but all profits will be re-invested into the nursery.

Who runs the nursery?

There are many persons involved. Some are known in the ABDL community while othewr prefer to keep a lower profile. Here is a list of the administrators:

• Ticarl Well known Quebecer infantilist who organised many meetings or get togethers in the Quebec city and Montreal regions. His blog has been instrumental in the gathering of many infantilists and he has kept it up for many years. Although less active on the blogging scene now( his projects leave him very little spare time)he will resume blogging when time allows.
• C2 "Underground" infantilist and friend of Ticarl. Has been a key-player in the startup of the nursery and handles much of its administration. There are good chances that he will answer when you call or email ABDL-Montreal!
• Baby Carosimo True girl-infantilist who devotes much of her time to the upkeep and management of the nursery.
• Business partners and nannies also bring precious help in the smooth sailing of the nursery.

Is the nurseri accessible to wheelchair-bound people?

Unfortunately, the nursery's main entrance and emergency exits have about twenty stair-steps. A wheelchair-bound patron should be able to clim stair by himself in order to safely access the nursery.